Discover Your True Self

and Reclaim Your Life’s Steering Wheel

Are you at a crossroads, pondering, “Who am I, really?” and “What makes me come alive? Life’s twists—whether it’s the end of a relationship, divorce, or a shift in self-identity, can often push you to take ownership of your journey, transitioning from a passenger to the driver.

Despite full-hearted attempts to please, perhaps you’ve ended up feeling lost, unsure of yourself, and wondering what went wrong. For years, you might have tried to fit in, masking your true self in relationships and life.

Life has a way of granting us these pivotal moments of pause—an opportunity to realign with your authentic self, to embrace self-love, and to live a life richer than you ever imagined. These chances often come when least expected, and for many of us, they arrive after heartache.

For me, this journey took on even deeper meaning after my autism diagnosis in my forties. It brought clarity to patterns I had experienced for years—feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, and, at times, emotionally drained. But it also illuminated the path to my truest self.

I’m Lindsey Elms. A few years ago, my twenty-year marriage ended abruptly, leaving me reeling in grief, pain, and panic. It pushed me into a deep quest for healing and self-discovery. Having defined myself through relationships and societal expectations since my teenage years, I was faced with the challenge of rediscovering who I was on my own terms.

I discovered that without a clear vision of your values, non-negotiables, or the person you truly are, there’s a real risk of living for others rather than yourself. And that armed with self-awareness and clarity you can carve out a life for yourself based on authenticity, purpose and peace.

Through my 1:1 sessions—infused with the ancient wisdom of Nine Star Ki—and my upcoming book, Guided by Love (due for release on February 4th, 2025), I’m here to guide you towards clarity, inner peace, and that fulfilling sense of being your authentic self again.

If you feel disconnected, confused, or perhaps simply looking for guidance through life’s challenges, let’s work together. Together, we can move you from heartbreak to feeling heartsafe, from disconnection to deep connection, grounded in love and the wisdom of nature.

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